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Saturday, June 23, 2012

Want To Know How To Get Your Ex Back?

By Roger Allen


Most couples at the start of a break up often find there selves in regret and wonder if they have made the right decision to break up with their partners. Furthermore often sit in wonder and confused to how to reverse the situation. You ask yourself the question was it my fault? Or was he or she being unreasonable? Don't go away because I don't Just have secrets to how to get your ex back for you today but a simple strategy to win back your ex's affection.

Although breaking up is hard to do if you are truly unhappy with your relationship and you are both in agreement to break up then this is probably the right path to take. On the other hand nobody likes break ups and if it was the girl that instigated the break up it very often can be turned around why? Whether we like it or not women are fickle and often change their minds like the wind. They are not to blame its part of human nature and the way god made them.

If you have faith that you can get your ex back then create a master plan and take some time out. Its not a race create space that you probably both need right now. Eliminate the fear that he or she will find somebody else before you are able to put your plan into action. My guess is if your relationship was long standing you must have been good friends as well as lovers. So start out your plan of action on a very casual way and become friends again.

Most frequently in life if we want to achieve more we have go backwards in order to move forwards. Lovers are initially best friends to go back to being friends with your ex is not an easy move to make but it is proven to be the most effective why? It's easy to apologise to a friend however not so easy to a lover right? By becoming friends it's like taking the gloves off and opens up new horizons creates trust and you start to like each other again.

Just to make an example check out the dating sites and browse through their profiles and how often they mention they only want a friend. That's not what they want at all in most cases in fact surprisingly the reverse. But that's why we love them so much because they are so unpredictable.

The realities today are that around half of couples that are together at this time are destine to break up or get divorced which is a little negative. However astonishingly many of them are forced to become friends due to family commitments and often end up together again why? Because friends inevitable become lovers.

Let's go over the main points friendship is the key and the backbone to any relationship and to how to get your ex back. If you are truly unhappy then move on but if possible try to remain friends. Thirdly take that important couple steps back to move forward in your life who knows it could be a life changing decision.




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