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Friday, January 14, 2011

There Are No True Steps In How To Save A Marriage

By Areelitaha Joahlanski


Learning how to save a marriage is not a difficult task to complete. Many people think that they need to save their marriage for many different reasons; a lot of the reason is because people take vows that they truly know nothing about.

The downfall of a lot of people is they fall subject to a marriage without truly understanding the structure of it. A marriage is supposed to be two people united forever. In a marriage we all take a vow to stay faithful and true to remain with your spouse through whatever life may throw your way. And the biggest vow that we all make during a marriage is to honor and love your spouse until death separates you.

With everything said about your marriage, how can you save a marriage that is crumbling to the ground? You need to begin to practice the vows you took on your wedding day. Many people do not truly listen and comprehend what is truly being said when you are getting married. So many people are caught up in the moment, and the unbelief of their wedding day, that they block out certain pieces of the sermon, and they allow the words defining the true meaning of a marriage pass them by.

For people that better comprehend a step scale, then truly evaluating yourself, we were able to mix a little easy to follow guideline sheet, to help you with your dilemma.

-Step One- Appreciate what your significant other does. Many, take their spouse for granted, they think that what they do is over top of them. We are all human, and we all feel this way about our spouses at one point or another, but we never truly care to see what they do. When someone loves you, they do things just for you to notice. Acknowledge what your spouse does and thank them.

-Step two---Hold your tongue! Many people will lash out during arguments and say things that they didn? mean. These words are enough to tear your significant others heart out. When you are trying to rekindle your love for this person in an attempt to save your marriage, you do not lash out at them!

-Step three-Come back home! Do not neglect the time that you have with your spouse. Jobs may sometimes take up more time than you anticipate, but take out a day to just spend time with your spouse. Let life pass you by for one day. Do not forget who they are and why you married them.

Do something on this one day together. It doesn? have to be fancy you could go to watch a movie, or go out to eat, or just hang out on the couch.

The steps to save a marriage are not hard to follow; you need to be the one to put your best foot forward.




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