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Friday, April 13, 2012

Getting Ex Back - Knowing Whether He/She Wants To Be Back With Me

By Ingrid Margaret


If having ex back is something that you are occupied with, you have come to the right place. To find out whether your ex is still thinking about you, you should watch how he/she acts. If you see an abrupt change in your ex action like asking you out regularly or at times teasing with you, the possibility is that your ex may be interested in getting back with you. Nonetheless, you should never be overjoyed, as you are never certain for now.

With the above signs that your ex is acting differently, you shouldn't jump in too quickly and conclude that your ex is hopeful for a get back. Even when the probability is high for the re-union, you should first try to play hard (but not over doing it) and see how he/she response. On the contrary, if you jump into full force, it may have unfavorable effect of your ex pushing you back. Instead, if you try to play hard to get, you have an upper hand. Like I said before, please do not over do it or else both of you might get hurt once again.

In a relationship, when a split up takes place, it is normal that the both of you will have the feelings of missing each other just days after the break up and needing to get back together again. Human are just interesting creatures whose emotional actions contradict their own actions. It was so clear that most of the time both still wanted each other and yet initiated a separation. There are too many good memories that the both of you have to share and unthinkable to just end a relationship immediately. If you still think about whether or not in getting back your ex is possible, then you should realize by now that with the correct strategy and understanding human nature better, you can surely make the relationship works again.

However, as a way to know whether or not your ex is still eager to reunite with you, you should be careful about it too. Do not ever jump in immediately and think that he/she is absolutely keen to come back to you. Some just wanted to see whether or not you still care about him/her but do not intend to get back with you. Consequently, there are those who are so petty that they simply want to take revenge and pretend to give their lovers signs that he/she still wants to be back with them but the only plan is to traumatised them more.

To sum up, getting ex back must be carried out with caution and playing hard to get reasonably is the perfect way to go. Observe the situation carefully and follow up with some actions is your best bet and plan to go through the process of getting back in a less painful way.




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