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Thursday, August 11, 2011

If You Want to Get Her Back Avoid These Conversation Topics

By Dmitry Vasenyov


If you have broken up with your girlfriend, but you want to bring her back, then you have to know that you can do this. However, you have to know what to say and what not to say in order to attract her back. If it has been awhile since you spoke to her last time, you have to sit down and write out what you want to say during your phone call. What you will write on a paper will be your script. Because you do not want to sound scripted when you talk to her, below there is a conversation plan for you to use. Remember that it is crucial to have a plan before you talk to her since not knowing what to say could lead to a real disaster.

When you call her, you need to keep your conversion plan notes in front of you and utilize it as a guide while you speak. But, you do not have to read straight from your notes since it will sound as you are talking from a script, which will most likely freak her out. Instead, use your notes as a guide to keep you focused and away from any off-limits topics.

When you talk to her for the first time after your breakup, make sure you avoid any of the following topics:

- You do not have to apologize for anything to do with the breakup

- You do not have to blame her for the breakup

- You do not have to blame yourself for the breakup

- You do not have to beg her to take you back

You have to understand that doing any of these things will just drive her away. Instead of this, you have to keep your conversation light and simple. As well it is necessary for you not to act jealous no matter what she tells you.




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