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Wednesday, September 7, 2011

3 Reasons That Explains Why Couples End Up In Divorce - Are You Making Any of These Big Mistakes?

By Sarah Scott


Don't Let Boredom Mess Up Your Marriage

Biologically, humans pick a partner for about 7 years before switching partners. Many couples find themselves growing bored of their spouse and ultimately grow distant with one another. Unless you and your partner are introspective, and understand that the root of happy relationships depends on each person's perception of the world, other people and themselves-- then your wedding might be headed straight for heartache.

Many couples who divorced say they grew increasingly apart because they didn't take some time to cultivate their marriage everyday. Marriage is difficult work. Due to everyday stresses from work, school, kids and etc...it can be really tricky to take time out of your day to relax and connect with your partner.

You may not even understand that you are not fulfilling your spouse's wants. You and your other half loved one another at 1 time until destructive feelings from stress got in the way. You can change the outcome of your marriage if you truly and honestly want to change it.

Any wedding can be saved if both couples are committed to making it work. Couples who face adversity with bravery, strength and persistency can beat any challenges that dares to destroy their marriage. Your marriage will not always be as blissful as you would like but you can have a flourishing and successful partnership with your other half. Fight for your relationship fight it as if your fighting for your life. After all , you married your spouse with the intent of growing old together, that deserves a fighting chance, right?

Ensure Both Of You Win In All Of Your Disagreements

Great communication is a talent that many people aren't born with. It takes practice to effectively and positively express your thoughts and feelings. That is the reason why so many couples who divorce have a complicated time communicating to one another (without it leading to a full-on fight). There are also many folks who hold their emotions in causing their feelings to worsen and before they truly express themselves. Holding your feelings in always result in being more destructive to your marriage in the long term.

Are You and Your Partner Sexually Compatible?

Research have shown that many couples sex drive's strength is very similar to couples who are about ten years apart. Many couples nowadays are only a few years apart and once they have hit 30, it's common their sex drive to lower or they become sexually incompatible. If you and your spouse are having problems in the bedroom now, it may worsen over the course of the years unless you two do something positive about it now.

Relationship takes a lot of effort to keep the love flowing between you and your spouse. There will be days your faith in love might be shattered but remember that if you cultivate the foundations of your relationship, nothing can break you and your spouse apart.

In order to save a failing marriage, you must work on your mindset to improve your relationship. Check out what Relationship Blog has to offfer!




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