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Thursday, September 29, 2011

Why Love Becomes Problematic

By Samantha Kate


Despite keeping the things that make relationship last, sometimes relationships die; some due to natural death and some due to misunderstanding between the two parties. Sometimes, it is because we tend to overlook the simplest things in each other and take each other for granted.

When this happens, it is always an option to try to get your partner back. These are the ways to be able to get him back in the right pace.

Say you are sorry when it is your fault. No matter what the situation is, it is always good to say sorry. It is right to take the blame especially if it is your fault. So take the blame. Never get your pride get in your relationship. Your heart should always overpower your emotions and your ego.

Say you are sorry even if it is not your fault. If you apologize for him, he will be sorry for himself. It is also good to not pin the blame on him. He is just human. So by this way, you will acknowledge that being in the relationship is a two way gain and game.

Do not self pity. If you want to get him back, be confident. You can show him that you still have confidence and that you can put your life on track despite the situation. Instead of self pitying, show him that you are ready to move on. Be happy looking and be in charge. This way, you will look more lovable.

Say I love you again. Even if you are not yet together anymore, find a way to say "I love you" to him. Making him inspired is still the best way to win him back. Those three letter words always work.

Through this simple ways, you can win him back very easily. However, bear in mind that if all else fails, the best thing to do is to take it a rest for a while and make more distance while keeping a positive mindset.




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