Why isn't your boyfriend coming back to you? What can you do to ensure your success? How can you get rid of the pain and feel sure that you can win back the love that is rightfully yours?
While this might sound very simplistic, please hear me out and listen to what I have to say. I know that you love your boyfriend more than anything in this world. I know that all you want is to be able to get him back and get back to being in love again. I am sure that if you could do things differently that you would and that if you had that second chance that you are asking him for that you would be the perfect girlfriend and that your relationship would be the focus in your life.
Then the reality of the whole situation comes flooding over you. You are broken up and things show no sign of changing any time soon. Your mood and your optimism about getting back together changes like the wind. You might hear from him from time to time. You hope soars and then comes crashing down when the feelings of doubt and that so called reality sets in that tells you that he doesn't love you anymore. There are no loving words. There are no promises to work things out. There is nothing real to tell you that he is coming back to you and you fall into depression and tears once again.
You wish that you could feel that optimism all the time and if you only knew for sure that you could get him back then the time spent apart might not be so painful. If you knew for sure that a month from now or a year from now you would be together then you would have something to look forward to and you could bear the pain. You are on the right track there, you know. Knowing for sure and without doubt that you can and will get back together with your boyfriend is the key to your eventual success. You have to feel it in your heart and in your mind and you have to have confidence in yourself and in your love in order to put forth the best effort and exude the necessary feelings that will attract your boyfriend back to you.
I know that you feel helpless at times when you think about getting him back and the doubt can be overwhelming. You wish that you could feel sure that you can get your ex back and that is what I want to give to you. I want to build up your self confidence so you can persevere and win him back. You can do this quite simply by enjoying some time each and every day and especially during moments when that doubt creeps in, by pushing that doubt back with your dreams. This might sound very simplistic but by dreaming of what it will be like to be held in his arms again and feel his lips upon yours can help you to feel sure about getting him back. Living what you want out in your mind in minute detail and relishing how you want things to be is the first step in actually making those dreams to come true. These dreams can lift your spirit and bring back the confidence that you are going to need to win him back
If you feel resistance visualizing or dreaming about getting him back, just keep on pushing forward. Spend time every day and push past any sort of pain or resistance. A portion of your brain might try to tell you that the reality is that you are broken up with your boyfriend or that you will never get him back but your reality can be whatever you want it to be. If you want to think that you will never get him back then your body will respond in like fashion and make that your reality. If you believe that you will get back together then your body will respond and do everything in its power to try to make that reality come true. The choice is up to you.
Even though this exercise might seem stupid or you might feel silly or weird doing it, visualizing the goal that you wish to achieve is the foundation of anything that you want to achieve in your life. If your relationship is important to you and you really do want to get your boyfriend back, work in getting your mind and your heart right before you move forward with any plans to win him back.
While this might sound very simplistic, please hear me out and listen to what I have to say. I know that you love your boyfriend more than anything in this world. I know that all you want is to be able to get him back and get back to being in love again. I am sure that if you could do things differently that you would and that if you had that second chance that you are asking him for that you would be the perfect girlfriend and that your relationship would be the focus in your life.
Then the reality of the whole situation comes flooding over you. You are broken up and things show no sign of changing any time soon. Your mood and your optimism about getting back together changes like the wind. You might hear from him from time to time. You hope soars and then comes crashing down when the feelings of doubt and that so called reality sets in that tells you that he doesn't love you anymore. There are no loving words. There are no promises to work things out. There is nothing real to tell you that he is coming back to you and you fall into depression and tears once again.
You wish that you could feel that optimism all the time and if you only knew for sure that you could get him back then the time spent apart might not be so painful. If you knew for sure that a month from now or a year from now you would be together then you would have something to look forward to and you could bear the pain. You are on the right track there, you know. Knowing for sure and without doubt that you can and will get back together with your boyfriend is the key to your eventual success. You have to feel it in your heart and in your mind and you have to have confidence in yourself and in your love in order to put forth the best effort and exude the necessary feelings that will attract your boyfriend back to you.
I know that you feel helpless at times when you think about getting him back and the doubt can be overwhelming. You wish that you could feel sure that you can get your ex back and that is what I want to give to you. I want to build up your self confidence so you can persevere and win him back. You can do this quite simply by enjoying some time each and every day and especially during moments when that doubt creeps in, by pushing that doubt back with your dreams. This might sound very simplistic but by dreaming of what it will be like to be held in his arms again and feel his lips upon yours can help you to feel sure about getting him back. Living what you want out in your mind in minute detail and relishing how you want things to be is the first step in actually making those dreams to come true. These dreams can lift your spirit and bring back the confidence that you are going to need to win him back
If you feel resistance visualizing or dreaming about getting him back, just keep on pushing forward. Spend time every day and push past any sort of pain or resistance. A portion of your brain might try to tell you that the reality is that you are broken up with your boyfriend or that you will never get him back but your reality can be whatever you want it to be. If you want to think that you will never get him back then your body will respond in like fashion and make that your reality. If you believe that you will get back together then your body will respond and do everything in its power to try to make that reality come true. The choice is up to you.
Even though this exercise might seem stupid or you might feel silly or weird doing it, visualizing the goal that you wish to achieve is the foundation of anything that you want to achieve in your life. If your relationship is important to you and you really do want to get your boyfriend back, work in getting your mind and your heart right before you move forward with any plans to win him back.
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Enjoy these encouraging words and some helpful advice in this Magic of Making Up review. Find out how others who had just about give up hope of ever getting their ex back are now in the loving relationship of their dreams thanks to these methods.
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