Robert Frost, who struggled for years prior to his poetry being published and he became famous, is quoted as saying: "I'm against a homogenized society because I want the cream to rise." Frost taught poetry at Dartmouth college. This white haired, bearded man of confidence who exuded excellence in his field impressed many a student.
He took his analogy from what used to be common knowledge before people bought homogenized milk in grocery stores. The richness of a cow's milk in the ordinary barnyard of old was calculated by how much thick cream rose to the top of the milk after it came from the cow's bag and set for awhile. Once the cream rose, it was skimmed off to be used in many, marvelous ways. It was a delicacy, the best of the best.
Frost, then, who wanted the cream of society to rise to the top was referring to excellence in human accomplishment - the person who says no to be ordinary - who works to accomplish something special in his or her life.
Your husband may not have found his niche in life as yet. Or he may have. Either way, he is very, very extraordinary and is meant to become more than he is at the present time. Build him up and help him become the "cream" that rises. In our women's material, we show you how.
Meanwhile, encourage him daily with such phrases as:. "You have what it takes." "I know you can do it." "So it didn't work out this time. Keep trying. It will happen just at the right moment." I have faith in you." And keep assuring him: "I didn't marry you because of what I thought you could be someday. I married you because I love you. I'll keep loving you, no matter what happens." "Let's take a look at what you do best so you can place your efforts there."
Meet his requirements, just as you want him to meet yours. There is more to that guy than you ever dreamed.
He took his analogy from what used to be common knowledge before people bought homogenized milk in grocery stores. The richness of a cow's milk in the ordinary barnyard of old was calculated by how much thick cream rose to the top of the milk after it came from the cow's bag and set for awhile. Once the cream rose, it was skimmed off to be used in many, marvelous ways. It was a delicacy, the best of the best.
Frost, then, who wanted the cream of society to rise to the top was referring to excellence in human accomplishment - the person who says no to be ordinary - who works to accomplish something special in his or her life.
Your husband may not have found his niche in life as yet. Or he may have. Either way, he is very, very extraordinary and is meant to become more than he is at the present time. Build him up and help him become the "cream" that rises. In our women's material, we show you how.
Meanwhile, encourage him daily with such phrases as:. "You have what it takes." "I know you can do it." "So it didn't work out this time. Keep trying. It will happen just at the right moment." I have faith in you." And keep assuring him: "I didn't marry you because of what I thought you could be someday. I married you because I love you. I'll keep loving you, no matter what happens." "Let's take a look at what you do best so you can place your efforts there."
Meet his requirements, just as you want him to meet yours. There is more to that guy than you ever dreamed.
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