Love is a fire which will generally burn red hot early on and then slowly settle down to a sustained bed of coals. So it is normal for couples to come to a point in their marriage where things are not as they once were.
The difficulty is when the love has cooled too much and they feel separated, forsaken, and sometimes even as if the other person doesn't love them at all, let alone with the power that once existed.
They begin to think how can I save my marriage? They simply do not know where to begin and need help.
This is the time to put all of the cares of the world on the side and bring the marriage back into the top priority slot - where it ought to have always been. Typically , this is one of the number 1 reasons that explain why couples have marital strife.
Not everyday, life problems, but issues that shouldn't have advanced to a much higher, and more costly, more agonizing level.
One of the main problems facing couples is they do not fix problems as they come about. One spouse may feel "it is too insignificant to matter", or "I should just let it go". The thing is that instead of letting it go, they just swallow it and it doesn't go away.
If the problem is sufficiently big to contemplate it as a problem, then it is a sufficiently big problem to work out now. What is a minor problem now can end up in a major fight later , if left as is.
We have all heard how crucial communication is in a positive relationship, but part of that equation also involves openness. Many of us incorrectly believe the two are one and the same, but in actuality, they can be quite different.
Communication involves speaking to your spouse and informing them how you feel. Openness defines how much you communicate. Simply saying that you want to communicate is one thing. Really willing to be open about anything is an entirely different matter.
Men are notorious for making this error. Many are taught from a tender age to protect their emotions, not let them out, and if this is the case only in little, inconspicuous amounts that won't attract attention or deter from their manhood.
The husband may feel as if he is protecting his feelings, but at the same time he is being reserved. Being reserved doesn't disentangle a difficulty, being open does.
If we trust our companion enough to marry them, to single them out to give our life to, and to cherish for the rest of our lives, then why not be open with them, too?
Many areas of a person's life involve things that they would consider unimportant, or not worth bring up. If a person truly is serious when they ask how can I save my marriage, then let the spouse decide if those issues are unimportant or not.
The difficulty is when the love has cooled too much and they feel separated, forsaken, and sometimes even as if the other person doesn't love them at all, let alone with the power that once existed.
They begin to think how can I save my marriage? They simply do not know where to begin and need help.
This is the time to put all of the cares of the world on the side and bring the marriage back into the top priority slot - where it ought to have always been. Typically , this is one of the number 1 reasons that explain why couples have marital strife.
Not everyday, life problems, but issues that shouldn't have advanced to a much higher, and more costly, more agonizing level.
One of the main problems facing couples is they do not fix problems as they come about. One spouse may feel "it is too insignificant to matter", or "I should just let it go". The thing is that instead of letting it go, they just swallow it and it doesn't go away.
If the problem is sufficiently big to contemplate it as a problem, then it is a sufficiently big problem to work out now. What is a minor problem now can end up in a major fight later , if left as is.
We have all heard how crucial communication is in a positive relationship, but part of that equation also involves openness. Many of us incorrectly believe the two are one and the same, but in actuality, they can be quite different.
Communication involves speaking to your spouse and informing them how you feel. Openness defines how much you communicate. Simply saying that you want to communicate is one thing. Really willing to be open about anything is an entirely different matter.
Men are notorious for making this error. Many are taught from a tender age to protect their emotions, not let them out, and if this is the case only in little, inconspicuous amounts that won't attract attention or deter from their manhood.
The husband may feel as if he is protecting his feelings, but at the same time he is being reserved. Being reserved doesn't disentangle a difficulty, being open does.
If we trust our companion enough to marry them, to single them out to give our life to, and to cherish for the rest of our lives, then why not be open with them, too?
Many areas of a person's life involve things that they would consider unimportant, or not worth bring up. If a person truly is serious when they ask how can I save my marriage, then let the spouse decide if those issues are unimportant or not.
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