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Wednesday, October 12, 2011

Allowing a Marriage to Work

By Kate Ambers


Having a girlfriend or a boyfriend is easy but making everything steady as in a marriage is another story. Making the relationship work into a marriage is part of the long line of struggles we to face to be successful at love. Here are some game plans we can do to maintain our wonderful relationships with our partners.

Maintain the fire. Always set a date night. It may be once a week or every other week depending on your allowable time. Always have time with each other to bring a steady romance. During these dates, try to get the more romance by giving flowers or gifts to each other. Give your partner simple tokens showing your love and affection.

As much as possible, maintain decency. Even if you have been together for quite some time, try to maintain distance in terms of the physical. It is good to have some sensuality once in a while but maintaining mystery is also a plus. This way, romantic nights will be more romantic because of physical excitement.

Say nice things to your partner and as much as possible, say something nice to your partner every day. Tell him that he looks good or he is smart and funny.

Laugh at all times. A good laugh makes a good relationship. Watch funny films that will ignite laughter. As they say, laughter is the best medicine so laugh at all times. Laugh when you have problems. Laugh after a fight. Laugh when one of you is sad.

Have time for yourself. Even if you have a partner, give time for yourself. Go to the mall and take some time to shop. Go to the salon and change your look once in a while. Through this, you will give your partner an element of shock and prevent boredom.

Trust and listen. Always trust your partner no matter what. Because of this, he will trust you. He will always stop himself from doing unreasonable things because of your trust.




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