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Monday, October 17, 2011

Why Women Want to Leave Men

By Mary Smith


If you are reading this article, perhaps your wife or girlfriend has already left you. Or perhaps she is still with you but you know she may leave anytime. You are probably clueless and you want to find out why a woman will choose to leave a relationship.

You might already have a preconceived notion of why a woman would ever want to leave a relationship. But this preconceived notion may be totally invalid. So it is time for you to gain more knowledge in order to dispel the invalid preconceived notion.

Relationships are not always smooth riding. Given time, you are going to find faults with each other.

Do not underestimate those small arguments that happen day to day. Before you know it, all these insignificant things may get out of control so much so that either you or your woman decided to give up on that relationship.

Whatever knowledge you have about relationship is probably self learned. There is nothing wrong with self learning. The problem comes when you learn the wrong things. This is true for many men who have learned the wrong things about women.

For example, if you believe that all women are materialistic, then you need to ask yourself where you pick up this wrong information. Sure, some women are certainly materialistic but not all women are.

And of course, men and women may be different but at the end of the day, both men and women are people. So you should learn to treat them as people, just like how you would like to be treated.

I noticed that many men make the same mistakes. Believe it or not, some men behave like a jerk, especially in the way they treat their wife or girlfriend. They treat them like a maid and expect their women to be obedient.

You do not want to behave like a jerk but that does not mean you have to put her on a pedestal. Relationships can get very stale when you do that. Women do not like to be put on a pedestal all the time. They want a man who can lead and make decision, and of course, be fun and adventurous.

Let's face it. Everyone is different. One man is different from the next. This applies to women too. So just because a woman like to be treated in a certain way does not mean all women love to be treated in the same way.

The key here is to work hard on your relationship. You should really put in the time to learn more about your woman's likes and dislikes.

Obviously, women leave men because they are not happy about the relationship. There is no argument about that.

I know you probably want someone to tell you why your girlfriend or wife isn't happy with the relationship. Unfortunately, it really depends on your own situation. So there is no one size fit all solution. That means if you really want to know the reasons, you will have to be the one finding out the answer.



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