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Wednesday, October 5, 2011

Get back with your ex spouse

By Alyssa Villame


The best thing about having a long distant relationship with your husband is that when you see each other, you will be able to prove that amidst all odds, you still maintain stronger and together. But sometimes, things do not work the way they are and you end up on the rocks or even separation. When this happens, do not give up. Do not be so sad about the situation.

Most long distance relationships are bound to end but most of them are also bound to last. Studies show that there are more lasting relationships being in a long distance love than a relationship that is together 24/7.

It is almost normal to have a break up with your long distance love at some point of the relationship. As they say, it is just a phase on the relationship that when taken seriously and correctly, will even make the relationship steadier.

When a phase like this happens with you and your long distance love, be positive at all times. Always show a happy mood. Never show too much sadness. Showing optimism leads to optimism also on his side. This will create a good cosmos of you getting back together.

While being positive, try communicating with him casually. Long distance relationships often talk on the internet as much as on the phone so try chatting with him once on awhile. Make sure you do not chat with him too much as you might sound needy.

While chatting with him, talk about the good things that happened to you in your day. While at that try asking him too about good things that happened to him. Sharing personal happy incites will entice him to share his incites as well.

If you start to reminisce about each other's companionship, continue with it while but give it some moderation. It is better to talk about the future rather than the past. The past should be the media pushing the future of your relationship.




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