You may want to understand how to win your man back once the love and attraction is gone. These 4 simple steps will help you fan the flames that brought you and your love together - even though he might already be dating another person.
Step 1 is to become a person he can trust. Be around him as much as possible, make him aware that you're available when he has to get something off his chest. Do not be judgmental, do be open-minded - that's the key. Letting your ex know that he can open up and share his feelings and not be judged or made to feel bad when he shares his thoughts with you. Gaining true intimacy is paramount to bringing back your man.
Being open-minded and understanding is the next step, but don't put yourself in the position of being a pushover, don't let him use you for a doormat. You definitely don't really want to be thought of as a person to be taken advantage of. That's what will happen if you appear excessively eager. Make it a point to allow him know how you're feeling about things, have some opinions. Don't come across as being judgmental, but do let him know that you have ideas of your own, that you have emotions. Don't attempt to bend his thoughts and viewpoints to suit you, that is being harsh. Know the difference between sharing your thoughts and being harsh.
Remind him of the happy times - that is your third crucial move. Winning a man back is less complicated if you remind him from time to time about the great times. Keeping those satisfying memories under consideration will help him see why he liked you so much in the first place. One thing you completely don't want to do is bring up unpleasant past times, that might only throw off your plans to get him back.
Informing him how you feel about him should be your fourth move. Do not be too effusive, too quickly. Confirm he's definitely beginning to like you again before getting all gushy. The first 3 steps, if done right should be an easy way to win back his heart so you can carry on to step 4.
You'll know you have hit a home run if he starts flirting again, or checking you out when you're not looking. Often a guy will need some help in this stage of the relationship, he would feel a little chagrined for ever leaving you in the first place. Help him out, help him save face. That is an important way to win a man back. Let him know, when the time is right, that you two make a good couple and it might be worth to try it again.
Take things slowly, be persistent, and you'll win your man back. Do not think your efforts are for zilch, you've been planting enough positively charged thoughts in his head and he may come to think getting together again was his idea.
What if you just can't get the love back in your marriage? I know how hard it can be to try and make your spouse understand just how special your love is, but if you want to really make your relationship sing again, you'll need to learn a different strategy in saving your relationship.
Step 1 is to become a person he can trust. Be around him as much as possible, make him aware that you're available when he has to get something off his chest. Do not be judgmental, do be open-minded - that's the key. Letting your ex know that he can open up and share his feelings and not be judged or made to feel bad when he shares his thoughts with you. Gaining true intimacy is paramount to bringing back your man.
Being open-minded and understanding is the next step, but don't put yourself in the position of being a pushover, don't let him use you for a doormat. You definitely don't really want to be thought of as a person to be taken advantage of. That's what will happen if you appear excessively eager. Make it a point to allow him know how you're feeling about things, have some opinions. Don't come across as being judgmental, but do let him know that you have ideas of your own, that you have emotions. Don't attempt to bend his thoughts and viewpoints to suit you, that is being harsh. Know the difference between sharing your thoughts and being harsh.
Remind him of the happy times - that is your third crucial move. Winning a man back is less complicated if you remind him from time to time about the great times. Keeping those satisfying memories under consideration will help him see why he liked you so much in the first place. One thing you completely don't want to do is bring up unpleasant past times, that might only throw off your plans to get him back.
Informing him how you feel about him should be your fourth move. Do not be too effusive, too quickly. Confirm he's definitely beginning to like you again before getting all gushy. The first 3 steps, if done right should be an easy way to win back his heart so you can carry on to step 4.
You'll know you have hit a home run if he starts flirting again, or checking you out when you're not looking. Often a guy will need some help in this stage of the relationship, he would feel a little chagrined for ever leaving you in the first place. Help him out, help him save face. That is an important way to win a man back. Let him know, when the time is right, that you two make a good couple and it might be worth to try it again.
Take things slowly, be persistent, and you'll win your man back. Do not think your efforts are for zilch, you've been planting enough positively charged thoughts in his head and he may come to think getting together again was his idea.
What if you just can't get the love back in your marriage? I know how hard it can be to try and make your spouse understand just how special your love is, but if you want to really make your relationship sing again, you'll need to learn a different strategy in saving your relationship.
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This strategy is simple to pick up and it doesn't take much practice, you can read how to do it in my free report here: How to Get the Love Back. Don't give up hope, it's NOT impossible. Learn more ways to Mend a Bad Marriage before it's too late for you and your spouse.
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